Still Standing in Combat Boots
Behind every warrior is a strong support system.
You are seen. You are valued. You are strong. You are not alone. A community built for the military and veteran spouses who hold everything together — together we stand stronger.
Our promise to you
A place that carries you back.
You Are Seen
Behind every warrior is a spouse holding the homefront together. We notice the quiet strength it takes.
You Are Valued
Your sacrifice matters. Connect with people who understand the weight you carry every single day.
You Are Strong
Resilience built over countless deployments. We help you turn that strength into a thriving life.
You Are Not Alone
A nationwide network of military and veteran spouses ready to listen, support, and stand beside you.
The community
Find your people. Help them help the veteran.
When you join, you unlock a private community, monthly support groups and guest speakers, a curated resource library, downloadable journals and worksheets, wellness challenges, and a veteran-spouse directory.
- Private online community
- Monthly virtual support groups
- Guest speakers & experts
- PTSD, caregiving & VA benefits
- Downloadable journals & worksheets
- Member-only discounts
Meet your strategist
Kimberly Hightower
Trauma & Grief Strategist · Founder, Empowered Excellence
Kimberly walks beside military and veteran spouses through grief, trauma and transition — without judgment. Through emotional-intelligence coaching and transformational guidance, she helps you process pain, reclaim your story, and stand taller in your own life.
Book a 1-on-1 sessionIn their words
Stories of healing & growth.
“I’ve been a client of Kimberly Hightower for two years, and I can say without hesitation that she has transformed my life. When I first came to her, I was in one of the darkest places I had ever been. Kimberly didn’t just guide me through that season — she pulled me into a new version of myself. Because of her coaching, I stand taller. I lead with confidence. I speak with authority. And for the first time in my life, I truly know who I am.”
“After losing my mother in 2020 and my husband in 2024, I found myself navigating a level of grief I never imagined. In some of my darkest moments, Kimberly Hightower became my lifeline. Through her Empowered Excellence practice, she offered the emotional intelligence coaching, grief support, and transformational guidance I desperately needed. She didn’t just support me — she helped me breathe again, think clearly again, and slowly reclaim pieces of myself I thought I had lost.”
“When Kimberly came into my life, I was grieving the loss of my mother-in-law, my best friend. Kimberly helped me step out of my comfort zone and begin choosing myself again. She reminded me that if I didn’t like the story I was living, I had the power to change it. She taught me how to speak up, express my pain, and release what was no longer serving me. I’m truly grateful for her guidance, compassion, and support.”
Membership
Choose how you want to stand with us.
Support Member
$9.99 / per month
- Newsletter & weekly encouragement
- Full community access
- Monthly events
Premium Member
$29.99 / per month
- Everything in Support
- Private online community / forum
- Monthly virtual support group meetings
- Monthly guest speakers
- Resource library (PTSD, caregiving, VA benefits & more)
- Downloadable journals & worksheets
- Monthly wellness challenges
- Prayer & encouragement groups
- Exclusive articles & videos
- Member-only discounts on coaching, retreats & events
- Veteran spouse directory
- Monthly group coaching session
- Small group mastermind
- Workshops & courses